you are feeling down or depressed you will inevitably attract things that make you feel bad.
This actually happened a couple of days ago to my H. He came in the house just as grouchy, miserable and full of resentment as he ever was when he was still drinking. So much so that S8 said to me "do you think Daddy has started drinking again secretly?"
He went into the utility room to put his things in the dryer and suddenly I heard a scream (a manly scream of course). He'd electrocuted himself on the plug which was slightly loose.
The whole thing was just weird, he came in looking like a lightning conducter for bad stuff and sure enough that's what happened.
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong