What is it about the OM that so attracts your W? I remember you said he was very young and a total loser. There must be something about him that your W prefers over you.
BD/DR doesn't dive into this all that much. If you are in for a different perspective, check in with the I(ntellectual W(h*res)/L(adder)/T(heory) crowd.
From LT:
All women want a hot, rich man. That is not possible for all women. There are a shortage of rich men, and a definite shortage of hot rich men, since if a man is rich he doesn't have to bother to look good. So if most of the men in a woman's life are of basically average looks and similar income, what is going to win out? Novelty, and power, which many outlaw bikers possess. By the description of attraction in the Ladder Theory it only goes to follow that if a woman can't have a rich man, that she'll gravitate toward an Outlaw Biker.
An Outlaw Biker is an archetypal male - not neccesarily a literal outlaw, nor a biker. He represents the bad boy, rebellious, going nowhere type of male that women theoretically prefer over a nice guy.
