when you have to ask for what you want

[MAL]

I like your list LL.

Thanks for stopping by my thread. You are one of my heroes, and your input means a lot to me. I know you have been where I am right now, and know my struggles. Do you think I can get results by just pulling away and moving on without proceeding with financial legal stuff? Or do you think I need to take that plunge. I just feel with almost no doubt, that any step in that direction will lead to a division of assets and legal sep. I don't want to do that.

Sorry to hog your thread. But I would love to have your input on that. You had a long haul too, just like me. You've seen all the recent baby steps (included at the beginning of my thread). What would you do?

Thanks love.