For me to forgive I'd need to see her re commit. I don't need a full confession, I don't need an admission of guilt, I don't need the gory details, I just want honest commitment.
Lan, I feel the same way about forgiveness. For me there also has to be a some heartfelt regret/relenting from the offender if not tho' I may yearn to forgive it truly does not happen. You are calling it commitment which may translate to the same thing. But since you have decided to love W thru' all that has happened, in time or with some event things may happen.
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread