I need to rephrase that and say I need to accept the fact that I am independant and it's ok!
I need to pay more attention to what h is saying
I need to ask for a hug when I want one and not get mad that h doesn't "always" just give it.
I need to stop dweling on the past every time I feel a little tension (tension does not mean things are the way the were it just means there is some tension)
I need to be more confident in myself and not care what others think, feel etc.
I need to accept that things happend that I don't like and accept that as a result we are making some possitive changes and working our way toward a more loving rewarding r that we each can be happy in.
I need to realize that h is happy when I'm happy and be happy damn it!!
I need to appreciate all that I have and all that I have ahead of me.