I can bet there is at least a small part of him that misses it as well. But to admit that or show you in any way is a step in the wrong direction for him. It doesn't go along with his "plan" for his life and may cause him to think too much about his choices.

You are so much stronger than I am Jenny. Your H must be amazed at your strength through all of this.

Hugs to you.

Does your H pay you child support? This is a big ? for me as I want H to be here as much as he wants as long as things are progressing for us. But I don't want to be the sole supporter for our daughter. As long as we are not married I should still ask him for cs right?

Last edited by Startingover2; 01/25/08 03:29 PM.
Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!