Karen,

The current affair, in all likelihood, will end. You have statistics on your side.

The problem is, unless the wayward spouse addresses the reason why they would have done such a foolish thing, and unless BOTH spouses address the conditions that might have led them to the brink, it's HIGHLY likely that it will happen again.

So I would encourage you to focus less on the current OW, and more on YOU, and on your MARRIAGE. The current OW is just filling the current role in the script.

Choc.