Does your W know of your DB threads? Would you feel comfortable if she were to read them? I am not saying what you did is wrong or right in reading her diary, but there are things that should remain personal even betwee H and W. I can understand the temptation with it almost calling at you to read it.
I don't think she knows about the DB threads - She certainly hasn't made mention of them in the past and I've certainly not showed them to her.
I agree that even between H & W there is still the concept of privacy - Like I said, I know I shouldn't have done it, but it's too late now. I feel very guilty for invading her privacy like that, especially since there really wasn't anything in there I didn't already know.
