I don't think you need to talk yourself out of feeling empathy for what she and her h are going thru. I think it's of tremendous value to your healing process!
just makes me feel like a sap!! people can just walk all over me...treat me like an insignificant little bug...be selfish...and ya know what...pathetic ole LL will still find some copassion within her for you.
it's not worth my time or energy sending anything her way other than the occasion thought of pitty. she is a total waw now and has her supporting group of friends and family who think she's doing the right thing..so then it's not my business to give a ratt about her family...I don't even know them for pete's sake why should I care...cause I'm a sap and I care about families.
but I still would like to spit in her face that would be fun.
