Hi Kalni,

This again is a little circular discussion which I've had on this board, I for one would like to have some closured on what has happen. I mean what's to stop me from having some form of outburst in the future about how shes cheated on me and done me wrong. How do I know all what's gone on with OM has ended, she may know this in her head but what do I know. Also W has just shown her nervousness about discussing anything delicate so unless we have closure she'll always have this hanging over her.

So at the moment I take all the good things that are happening and I will take the advice given to me on this board.

Originally Posted By: behopful
Just go with the flow for now. She'll let you know when she's ready to talk.


Ultimately I would like to have closure so the two of us can definitely say we've put everything to bed.


Me:50
W: 49
T:20yrs
M: 14 yrs
D:11
2005 PA
2006: EA (2003 : 2007)
2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate
2008: Feb Piecing
2009 Limbo
2011: Separated (same house)
2013: Divorcing