Boy.....you made me laugh with your last line about sex and crabs!!!!!!!!
The guy I went to see was amazing. He didn't have his kilt on today - obviously he wears that for the horses benefit and not the ladies, (or he's just as confused and F'ed up as the rest of us ), but he was amazing!!!!!
He didn't actually touch my neck but started off by doing an overall assessment of my posture and muscle etc and came out with some amazing stuff.( I sure am glad I put matching undies on that were in good condition!!!!!). He said that physically my skeletal structure was still stuck around my mid teens. He then asked me if I had been dragged by a horse at that age and kicked under the jaw - WTF? I had been. He even told me I had been dragged by my right leg - I can't remember which leg I was dragged by - but then he went on to tell me that all my problems stem from that. He will treat me over the next 18 months and thinks he can sort me out completely. He said that my body will change shape, (for the better I hope), and that I should end up absolutely pain free.
He crunched my whole body around but didn't touch my neck at all - the closest he got was when he did quite an extreme manouvre on my skull, but afterwards I was so much straighter!!!
I go back in a fortnight for my next treatment and then he thinks it will be every couple of months or so for a while. Even better he is covered by my medical insurance!!!!!
I am having a VERY good day - yipee!!!!!!!!!!!
BTW husband, I do get that with nice guys the women 'control' the sex and that it is not nice to be not wanted. I also think women can cope better on the whole, (but not all women) within a sexless R, but when it comes to betrayal and the S wandering off and having extra marital sex I think it can hurt the LBS just as much whether they be male or female. Do you see the distinction I am making?
It's about time your W stepped up to the plate.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength