W less angry with me, but not ready for piecing

[Lanzo]

W inadvertently game me a barometer check on her feelings, and my guess is she's not ready for R talks. (may never be).

Well this morning W said to me "I'm always tired in the mornings why's that ?" I told her that the last 6 months have been stressful for both of us and it's all probably catching up on you. And we left it at that.

Later in the morning W calls me at work and ask's was I having a dig at her about being tired, and what's been happening to us recently. I told her I wasn't having a dig, but what I was saying, I believe it to be truthful. Then I said to her I'm not really going to skirt around things that have happened, "I am allowed to talk the truth aren't I ?". W reluctantly said "I guess so".

Once we got over that W was back to discussing what movies we'd be watching next weekend. This weekend is interrupted cos W best friend has invited herself over for dinner. W is a bit peed by that cos it's interrupting our "quality time". In the dark times W would have used this as an opportunity for girl talk and excluded me from the house. But now she just wants to spend that time with me.

Funny how things change.