You come across as a ray of sunshine on this board, glad to have you here although not under the present circumstances.
At the moment you have positive interactions with your H so I would say dress your most stunningly best, (but keep it respectful) and try to have a good time with him. If H is not going I would say still go providing you don’t expect it to cause and argument with him, but only you can be the judge of that.
Have a good time
Lan
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing