Hmm....I like your thinkin' sox!! I keep telling him that I won't have ML with him until he breaks it off with her but dammit now that we ML on tuesday (after a drought for me since mid October) I'm ahem....wanting more (and he knows it!). Maybe when he has d6 tomorrow night I'll rock up to his place and say I changed my mind...I'm horny - let's go. As far as the g/f being away, I think she only went away earlier this week.

I feel like texting him now and say "You know what? U can feel hurt that I used you for sex if you want. But I wanted you, I wanted sex, you are my husband, isn't that who I should go to for sex? Methinks I have a right to have sex with my own husband and I shouldn't feel guilty about it. If you won't consider breaking up with E in order to concentrate on us, I will be seeking my satisfaction with my husband (using protection) but will be holding my heart back from you until we can both decide we want to work on the marriage"

Too brash?

He told me he hasn't seen her much over the last three weeks and (I think) he said he hasn't had sex with her for three and a half weeks because he's been missing me.


Last edited by LooseThread; 01/25/08 08:06 AM.

CMC

Me: 34
Him: 36
M: 10yrs
T: 17yrs
D: 6yo
S: 29/01/2007
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