As you know from other posts I have made, my H pretty much stopped contact with OW after a stormy week. However, he did not want to be seen as the bad guy by her in the aftermath of the break up so I think if she had been the pursuing - cling on - type he would have taken her calls / emails but would not have met up. He would have remained pleaseant but non- commital is my guess. Now he views her as the devil incarnate; it took a year for him to admit her faults - he admitted his much sooner. Also took a year for him to come out with the 'I never loved OW' - which coming out totally unrequested was such an amazing feeling.
I definitely think you are 'winning' here. Good for you girl!!!!!
Don't be surprised if once you get back on a more firm footing you start to question if you really want H after all he has put you through - that is a very common LBS feeling but you will come through it.
((((((HUGS))))))))
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
