Good luck on your decision. Divorce or TN. I can't imagine you would want to move all the way to TN the way he is acting right now. But if you do, go.
My H is going to be moving to Omaha for a job next month, I am just sure of it after the interview he had today. He actually told his mom he assumed me and the kids would come, too. Last night he told me it would suck if we didn't move with him. Well, it would suck if we did and nothing changed, too....
It is just something you will have to think about, and me too. I will be thinking of you, keep us posted!