I think I'm done

[darkestangel]

Because we see the outer "shell" of the man we married (the physical part, the lips that kissed us, the arms that held us with love long ago) and we forget that right now, inside that shell there is somebody totally different, this being who only cares for himself and who hurts us.
What we want is inside, and that is just not possible until they decide to change and want to be loving Hs.

amen sister. truer words were never spoken. I think you just nudged me into an epiphany.