You have to watch those expectation. I know what you mean though, they do build quietly. Still, remember that she is reacting to you out emotion not logic meaning that she is driven by her internal conflict right now, not by what is right for you, her or your kids.
Having an R talk is like getting an electric shock, you quickly realise that ti was a bad idea and don't want to do it again. Lick your wounds and carry on. In the long run, it means nothing.
I know it is a blow to your ego when she is disrespectful but why bother "Addressing" it? She is not going to listen and you'll just end up arguing with her. Just say "I'm sorry you feel that way" and walk away. Not only will she not expect this, it will be a 180 and also piss her off because she is not getting a rise out of you, which is what she wanted by being disrespectful in the firt place.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
