Hey..LL have not posted to you in a long time...sounds like things are going pretty good..I like Bobs idea..just ask h for a little "something"!! I know how it feels to be rejected though...that is worse then not getting any.
Are you doing the trip with family or just you and kids? Too bad the timing is wrong for h to join you...you guys need a change of scenery...but if he's ok and you are with just you going..then enjoy it to the fullest.YOU need a change of scenery.