H was out of town last night so he called on Ds phone on the way to school. That was unusual because usually he calls on mine. That had me worried. Then I sent him a text in the afternoon to remind him to pick up D. H respond "I know...I'm leaving ... to get her now." To me I thought that sounded like he was offended by my reminder. I talked to him later and asked about and he said he wasn't.
I had an appt. w/ my C today and she thinks I'm doing most things right. She was also encouraged by somethings H has been doing and saying. Trying not to get my hopes up. I know there is still a long road ahead.
H came to the house to have dinner w/ the Ds. H asked what they could make for dinner because he didn't want to go out in the cold. I gave him some options. I got ready to leave but H started talking and was very chatted. H asked where I was going...I almost responded is that any of your business I don't ask where you go. I didn't really feel that way though and this is one of the few times he has asked. I guess I should take it as a positive that H wanted to know where I would be. When I asked when I should be home he said any time was fine.
When I walked in the kitchen had not been cleaned up. That is something that normally pos me. I decided to ignore it and not let it bother me. H was kind of out on the couch and looked very tired so I decided to clean up quietly and say nothing about it. H thanked me later when he went out to do it and I think he really appreciated it so I'm glad I handle it the way I did.
H did share w/ me that he say a different C this week, but H saw is regular one today. Not sure what will come of all that, but I'm taking it as another positive.
