My response was that if I am always the one asking the questions/sharing feelings and he is always the one listening to me but NOT able to answer (H will say "I don't know" a lot, or sit in silence like he is thinking...), we WILL keep having the same discussion. That I can't fix anything all by myself. He actually agreed??!!??
That sounds so much like my H. I seem to do all the talking and he just sits there "thinking" looking angry.
Sounds like you did a great job last night. I know you want to hear that your H loves you. I myself forget what that sounds like. But, I wouldn't push it with your H at this point. Don't force him to say something he isn't comfortable with at this time.
