Quote: .What is the big deal if he doesn't ask you out?
the big deal is that HE asked OW to go to lunch...but can't ask me to go somewhere with him.
Quote: maybe talk to him about setting up a 1 night a week date.Put the moves on him.
I would like to have a weekly date night but h gets himself involved in projects around the house and wont take a break from them...everynight whether it's raining or not...h is now cutting down trees and cleaning brush in the yard til at least 8pm.
Quote: Put the moves on him
I've put the moves on him far to many times in this r and been rejected...I refuse to be rejected...not having the advance made toward you is one type of rejection but to make an advance yourself and be rejected is humilitating...I've been down that road and I'm not going there again.
Quote: Have you asked H to go with you to Florida?
h is the owner of a landscaping company...it is the begining of the season...he can't just take off for a week during the first weeks of the season. he has said that he may come for a day or two but will not make that decision until then..so basically I'm going under the impression that he will not be comming at all...that way I wont be dissapointed when he doesn't.
