lostlove,we all wish for what we aren't getting,I went from spending almost no time with XW to spending some time everyday for the last 22
days with her.I feel she is trying but what I wouldn't give for a hug.I think your husband is trying.What is the big deal if he doesn't ask you out?
Ask him if he goes that says alot,maybe talk to him about setting up a 1 night a week date.Put the moves on him.
You a little past the starting point just keep it going.Have you asked H to go with you to Florida?