I am so sorry you are going thru this. I know what you mean by that devastated feeling. My MLC W left in late Sept. I've only posted a few times but have already gotten some good and encouraging advice. I have also had a couple of coach sessions. This is a great group of people and you will find a lot of support. Reading DR is a great first step. Acceptance that your H has to go thru this on his own is probably next and I know is hard to accept, but it slowly starts sinking in. There are many wise people on this site. You may want to post and read thru other threads under the MLC forum.
I was advised to read the MLC Resources thread at the top of the MLC forum? There is a lot of great info available to help you start DB'ing
Take some deep breaths and take good care of yourself. I will say a prayer for you today.
FMD
Me - 53 W - 50 3 grown children Married 31 years Bomb dropped late september Married - 31 years
