Quote: maybe I'm just a brat...but I'm sorry I want my man to want me!! but now I don't even know what I want.
First, you're not a brat. Outspoken, yes - which I greatly appreciate. As well as a bunch of others on the boards, I suspect...
But a brat? Not just no, but hell no !
Just as I am struggling to find the right love language for my W, your H is struggling to find yours. It's difficult without some roadsigns to guide us poor slobs called males!
Maybe as your joint C sessions go further along, he will begin to understand. Please be patient, LL. Your H has come along a long way since this time last year. Not at the pace you would have liked - but he is trying to move there in his own way. At least he has been intimate with you - it's been close to two years for me. And even longer for some of the long time vets on the board.
Please take care of your kids as well. I promise that I'll do the same with mine.
As well as a bunch of others on the boards, I suspect... 
