when you have to ask for what you want

[sage]

LL --

Forsythia bushes, huh? Well, that's cool.

Here's my 2 cents -- heck, you've heard about a dime from me already -- if you can "see" the things that H does, even if it's not exactly what you want, you'll relax and it may really work to your advantage. I try to "journal" three good things a day because I realized a while back that I was missing the stuff he WAS doing because of all the stuff I wanted that he WASN'T doing.

Of course, that doesn't keep me cheerful and grateful all the time...hah, but it does keep me noticing the ways in which H speaks to me.

Maybe for mother's day H will present you with more forsythia bushes but he'll be N(*&D when he gives 'em to you... (a girl can hope, no?)

Sage