Ongoing affair, D papers filed, advice wanted

[SirPrizeMe]

NF, hallooo!
The Custody issue is still hanging out there. I senta lawyer-to-lawyer letter asking for more residential time with the kids, while we sort out an official parenting plan. She had a week to respond and then nothing. Her attorney is on holiday this week. So a delay of another week.

Next week we'll restart that conversation. In the meantime I still spend time "out" of the house with the kids, still enjoy it. I had the boys Sunday for a sleepover, and then Monday (MLK day, off school), it was fun.

I feel like you are right about the cultural diff. Of course, out of respect, I need to be able to compromise or retrain myself and I did. But you know, now with the rewrite of history, it was all bad, all the time, abuse abuse abuse. I'm not buyin what she's sellin.