well I can tell that going to c with h is going to be very difficult (at least in the begining anyway)
h comes off as very self righteous, overly confident, indifferent...etc...
get a lot of "that's just the way I am" that attitude isn't really conducive to getting what you want know is it.
I know you want more this or more that...but "that's just the way I am"
we have another appointment in a few weeks...
the kids and I leave for florida next week..h isn't comming that I know of..so that will be a week for him not seeing me or the kids..perhaps that will change his attitude a bit.
lately h has been working during the day then immediatley upon ariving home works out in the yard til 8ish...c asked what the plans were for the summer...when he was going to make time for fun? h "that's just the way I am" attitude of getting things done...