I didn't call, but it's really scary how tempting it is to want to tell H off and "get closure". My family is urging me to "get closure", and thinks that would be perfectly fine, but I will resist.
Mother Magee, I don't really live "North" of Seattle. I just posted that because I am so paranoid that H will somehow recognize me if he ever found this site. But I do live in the greater Sea-Tac area. Care to grab a cup of coffee sometime?