Help, it seems my 35 year old wife is in MLC #11

[Imageer]

Hey MMF, I know what you mean about posting. I have read a little in the last bit but haven't had much to say. I was going to reply to your last email but I've been so busy at work I haven't had a chance.

Things are going good. I've been in a good mood lately. Monday night I went to see Ozzy in concert. What a great time that was. I really needed it. I think watching the other people at the show was as much fun as the show itself.

Odd thing happened yesterday. When I got to work there was a VW from W that she left at 6:30 in the morning. It was angry and looking for some stuff for the kids. I thought to myself that it was just random anger and not really about me and carried on. A little later I send W an email response and at the end of it I put "Hope your having a good day". Shortly after that I got a response back the ended with "No, I'm not having a good day." I replied "What's Wrong?" but she never answered.

I've been wondering whats going on for the last couple of days. At first I thought it was that she was fighting with OW but then when I dropped the kids off SIL was at her place (this is a very rare thing)and then tonight she said that her mother can't take the kids to practice on the weekend. W also didn't look happy. Now I'm wondering if something is wrong with her mother. Although, if that is the case, she would normally have told me. So I really have no idea what is going on. I'd really like to ask, but I think for the time being I will stay out of it. I'm sure she will tell me sooner or later.

I really liked that ebook too. Especially the parts about acting as if and trying to make you life look good and happy. I'm slightly altering the way I handle this sitch to include those things.

[Punktmann]

Imageer, hope things are going well w/ you.

If not, I hope they aren't going backwards.

Best,

Punk

[Imageer]

Punk, Things are well. I'm calm and focused on the goal. I'm settled in for the long haul.

Hope things are well with you.

[plentyhope]

Hey Imageer,

I've been wondering whats going on for the last couple of days. At first I thought it was that she was fighting with OW but then when I dropped the kids off SIL was at her place (this is a very rare thing)and then tonight she said that her mother can't take the kids to practice on the weekend. W also didn't look happy

Is it possible that your W and OP broke up?

[Imageer]

That was my thought (my hope) but I know OW drove the kids to school today. If it is not something to do with her (I hope not) then I tend to think that it is something to do with OW. I have enough communication with W that if it was a job thing or her mother for that matter, she would have told me I would think. Maybe she had a fight with OW. It's all speculation at this point.

[Imageer]

2 interesting things happened a little while ago.

First W refered to OW by name in front of me. She was telling the kids whose car they could trust to get in to. This is only the second time she has done that. She did is once months ago when she said that "her friend Sue" was staying over to drive her. She only did it then because the kids called her by name so many times in front of me, it was hard to avoid. The kids still use her name all the time and it makes wife skiddish.

Second, I was giving D5 a hug and I could have sworn that W looked down at my .... ummmmm ..... "package" while I was. She was definately look at something.

[Punktmann]

[Imageer]

You've got that right. Most action I've seen in 13 months!

[Imageer]

W was back to being all smiley today when I dropped off the kids. She has really been somewhat miserable all week. The kids also played their role in this well today. When I tried to drop them off, S5 didn't want me to leave

[missmyfriend]

Maybe she is thinking about what she saw the other day and she cant help herself.