I want to demand that he break up with g/f in order for me to give him a chance for us. I don't know if it will work.
It seems that he doesn't feel that he can be by himself. He was crying last night and rang me this morning to see what I had to say (I tried to call him quite a few times last night and sent him a long text which he said he deleted so I re-sent it this morning) and told me that he went back to her place because he didn't want to be alone and he couldn't come back here.
What do I do now? I know divorce looks temptingly easy right now on the very surface but the reality is that I cannot walk away from him completely. We have a little girl. I need to unturn more stones, he just keeps turning them back over to hide the grubs and not look to deeply into what is happening. Hmm...not sure about that metaphor.