I want to demand that he break up with g/f in order for me to give him a chance for us. I don't know if it will work.

It seems that he doesn't feel that he can be by himself. He was crying last night and rang me this morning to see what I had to say (I tried to call him quite a few times last night and sent him a long text which he said he deleted so I re-sent it this morning) and told me that he went back to her place because he didn't want to be alone and he couldn't come back here.

What do I do now? I know divorce looks temptingly easy right now on the very surface but the reality is that I cannot walk away from him completely. We have a little girl. I need to unturn more stones, he just keeps turning them back over to hide the grubs and not look to deeply into what is happening. Hmm...not sure about that metaphor.


CMC

Me: 34
Him: 36
M: 10yrs
T: 17yrs
D: 6yo
S: 29/01/2007
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