woog, i remember when first wife wigged out , having to tell my two children ages 7+2 . very tough. be honest , they will be scared. remember they are young. help them understand as much as you can that mommy and daddy love them no matter what. do not try to forecast the future for them. keep them in the day to day , keep them busy. hug and love them. i have to admit i am getting emotional just thinking about you having to do this. brings back some real tough memories. i have faith in your ability as a great dad to get them through this. it will help that your wife is still in the same house. my kids have really not noticed since wife and i are in seperate bedrooms. i am so sorry you are having to do this.


m-54
w-44
children-4
bomb-sept 21 2007
t-21
m-20yrs
bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023