Thanks, Miss IC, hairdog, karen... your kind words really do help. I agree, that ultimately 2008 is going to be a good year.
Bf may very well be suffering from this, but like most 7's he's probably just a) distracting himself and b) pretending it didn't happen/isn't happening.
Scott, I'm embarrassed to say that I wasn't aware a new Star Trek movie was coming out. What's the date? I was a trekker from Day One, the first episode when I saw Mr. Spock in 1966 (I was a senior in high school). I've always been drawn to emotionally unavailable men. Lil shakes head sadly. I never got into the later Star Treks as much as the original series. (Although I briefly did have the hots for Jean Luc... who says baldness isn't sexy?)