Quote: what a difference in the calls...h always did call during the day but the converstions were empty now they still contain the same what time he'll be home etc..but there's more to it...more energy...more thoughts...and more things about home.
Ahh...yes, I know the feeling. H is more "present."
Quote: we have an issue with one of the kids in the neighborhood
You know, LL, from what you wrote I feel sorry for the kid. Sounds like maybe his home life sucks and he doesn't get enough attention, or even food. I remember right before I had my first son there was a kid in the neighborhood that took a liking to me. He was about 8 or so. He was a good kid, but had a flake for a mom (dad wasn't around and mom had lots of boyfriends). The boy had trouble in school, got into fights, all that kind of stuff, but he was smart. Anyway, I showed him some kindness, tried to "guide" him as best I could knowing his mom was a flake. Perhaps this is what this boy needs? Maybe show him some additional kindness and guidance (like manners)? It's that old "butterfly effect"... Anyway, my .02...
