I think the answer is: What are your goals? If you want to rebuild the M, then ask her out. If you want the D (which is what I thought) then just get done with it. If you don't know, then use the 90 days and figure it out. Don't obsess with her and even think about her. GAL, brother.
--Chris
Me: 40 She: 31 S: 5 D: 3 Married: 8 years (05 DEC 99) Blow-up: 02 JUN 07 Piecing (More like Ostriching): 22 FEB 08