Thank you for the link, it is something I need. I printed it as PDF file and I keep electronically so I can refer to it.
I am still struggling with letting go of resentment resulted from being betrayed by some people I trusted. That betrayal cause the M to sink deeper. .
I do believe that carrying such intense negative feelings bring other bad things into one's life.
Me 42 W 27 Married: 6 years Together: 7 years Daughter: 3 years Wife away 2/16/2007 - 12/27/2007 (School in a different country) EA/PA began on Jan 07 (found out 12/29/07) Papers served on 2/6/2008