Originally Posted By: SUMMER
CM,

Well...from reviewing the links -- I can tell you to a certainty -- that the one thing your W is NOT...is indifferent to you!

And, as I am famous for explaining on DB...the opposite of love is NOT hate -- it is indifference.

So while it may not seem like much -- take heart! She still feels PASSION about you.

And as much as she may wish she was indifferent about you...she is not.

Interesting...isn't it??



SUMMER, thanks for this info too - I've felt this for quite a while also!

My wife HAS exhibited a fair bit of agression towards me - via her legal counsel & various sms's (text messages)...

Do you think you might find the time to go through all of my threads eventually - I would be most grateful



Here's my HUGE update for today and I was going to add some other stuff which happened about a week ago - to do with "that" lady who gives me hints about my wife (despite her saying this is something she would not do - be an agent for my wife in other words).

Ok, so here is is people - it's a BIGGIE (for me anyways )

I bumped into my WIFE today today unexpectedly \:o and experienced her frustration & anger for me - I was calm and non judgmental as far as I remember \:\) - I was in our local supermarket where we BOTH used to shop together when I saw her coming down the aisle towards me.

I took me a bit by surprise & I moved towards the dairy section and she came around the corner straight at me...yikes!

She asked me "Why is this taking so long" referring to the divorce proceedings SHE instituted the DAY she left me and all I replied was "I thought you would know by now" as I did not want to say anything to enforce her guilt, etc.

EDITED: after I said the above, she paused for a "fraction" and said: "You know it's been a year already??"

She asked me why I had phoned my lawyer (not sure how she came by this knowledge) and I said it had nothing to do with our "case" but that it was about something "else" - my lawyer had called looking for a generator (the business I'm in) and I merely returned her call - I did not let my wife know what the call was about though...

I asked if she was well & she said she was "very well" although she kinda looked hot & bothered - I ALSO asked her if she got my message (the voice mail I left her on New Year) and she said she had no idea why I would want to wish her well for 2008...

Her parting words were "I'll be happy when I get this divorce" and then she turned her back on me & walked off...

She seemed "fairly calm" throughout this small exchange between us, but somehow there were undertones of anger coming through (I think) so perhaps this is because 14 months later she is no closer to being divorced than she was the day she walked out?


I pray this interaction has planted some seeds towards reconciliation somehow \:\)

Best wishes & blessings
CM

PLEASE continue praying for US to be restored in all HIS glory



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