I think that you aren't giving yourself any credit. You both have the power to walk away at this point. The fact that you are trying to use yours constructively and figure stuff out doesn't mean you have any less power.
I think that part of her hang up is knowing that she's going to have to give up or at least slow down her fun new lifestyle... She's in party mode and you are in family mode. You both really need to be on the same page before you can make things work.
Glad to hear life is going well outside of M. That's always a good thing.
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Maybe some advice on my thinking about how or what to do with W? Maybe ask her out, or spend time together? What should I try? Honestly, I'm sick of playing DB, I just want to tell her I want some time with her, and see her reaction.
Then do it... Ask her to go out with you. treat her as you would a new girl that you'd ask out. It's been a while since you've done that, but it still works the same way. you ask, she says yes or no. If she says yes, maybe plan something fun that you guys used to do together and probably haven't done in a while. Dress up and take her out... why not. What have you got to lose at this point?
Keep going. ann
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
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