Spent a good chunk of the day speaking with oldest stepdaughter who has her own issues. I was surprised however how much she has grown and seems to have her stuff together. She went out of her way to point out to me on several occasions that she is not like her mother. anther funny thing is she wanted to know if my parents of all people are mad at her and her sister. I assured them that they are not even mad at their mother (disappointed) why in the world would they be mad at you?