Hey TMB, Sorry about your sitch. I don't know what I'm going to say/do when I see OM for the first time. He has periodic business where I work, so it will definitely happen at some point.
Just to lighten my recently-heavy mood, here's a funny story from my sitch:
My wife's boyfriend worked at the front counter at our gym, where I belong, and my wife works as a personal trainer. The hours that he worked rarely coincided with my workouts, but I would see him maybe once every-other week or so, and I usually just breezed past him, or shot him a dirtyh look.
Then one day, NOP over on the SSM board gave me a suggestion. He said the next time you see him, (and remember, this was RIGHT smack still in the middle of their active affair, and I knew from intel that I had gathered that they talked about me all the time, etc.!), slowly walk toward him, holding eye contact, and draw him in toward you. He'll think you're going to say something, but instead, just suddenly grin -- and WINK at him.
He told me it would FREAK HIM OUT, and they'd wonder what in the world I was up to, and he looked like he'd seen a ghost when I did it.
