LRT UNDER SAME ROOF III

[COG]

Craig,

i do not want my wife to have years of regret due to the breakup of our marriage.

You do not control that. She will have to live with her own decisions. To attempt to "save" her is a VERY controlling idea. You have to let go my friend.

my first wife to this day, over 23 years, regrets not working out the marriage problems and stayin together.

Your current W does not want to hear about your former W's mistakes, especially told that she is making the same mistake.

i would like to be able to point it out to her, without trying to make her feel guilty.

She wouldn't feel guilty, she'd just feel like you're making a feeble attempt to control her. Trust your W my brother. Trust that she is aware of the consequences of her actions. Don't make this easy for her, make it REAL. Just do, act, and report from a practical, not emotional standpoint. She's a big girl, she knows the risks and the consequences, or at least she's going to know. The longer you can delay the D the better. That'll give you more time to DB.

God bless you my friend. Hang in there, stay in reality, let go, and keep on praying for what you want.

COG