I have to be the one to initiate our get togethers, but he never turns me down. So..why doesn't he ask me? He says he enjoys being with me now. Before he said he like being around me "somtimes." The way there is no R talks at all bothers me, but my instinct tells me to keep going like this. Enjoying our time together and making it fun. IF there is AW, make it so he would rather be with me. After this trust has been so badly broken we want them to reassure us, and I for one don't get that. He does not say, 'Oh, by the way, in case your concerned that I'm still having contact with OW, I'm not, nor will I ever." Why don't they know we need this??? If they are trying, why don't they give it their all? I mean by going to MC, spending more time together at THIER request,and saying ILY. What are these people so AFRAID of?? Don't THEY get tired of living in limbo too? It's hard when you've been married so long and been so close to Rachael
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
