She can read all she wants, but it's not going to help much once the lawyers start their battles - How long is she going to fight until her attorneys says her retainer got burned through?
My W does not even know what a retainer is yet. She does not even know how much her lawyer charges. Unfortunately, she will be using our shared checking account to pay. I will be keeping track on her legal fees and will make sure to account for that on our settlement.