Why such a rush and loss of patience? She is not holding the cards. You are the one with the 90-days. Unless there is some court deadline or something I am unaware of, you are making your own timeline already. Just stay sober and stay the course. Make the most out of YOUR 90 days. I say let her spin and spin, not your problem she doesn't have a plan.
Best, --Chris
Me: 40 She: 31 S: 5 D: 3 Married: 8 years (05 DEC 99) Blow-up: 02 JUN 07 Piecing (More like Ostriching): 22 FEB 08