Carrying those feelings to the next relationship will poison them as well.
This is true. But being wary is a different story. There are people out there, especially when marrying from another country, that are in it for an ulterior motive. Carrying resentment isn't helpful, but being alert for possible ulterior motives is just learning from experience.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
