Wow. I have not gotten to this point in my sitch so I am hesitant to offer much advice. I will say that as much as she wants you to vent your anger, frustration, etc. you don't want to go overboard. You also want her to feel that she, too, can be open and honest.

I'm hoping someone who has been "here" before can provide some insight on how to approach this evening.

Best of luck and yes, maintaining your dignity and boudaries is essential. Great job!


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