well, all hell broke loose, it is over and done

[cat03]

hey apple, I've read your sitch (not in the shape to post much yet) but, boy, you've been through a lot! thanks for sharing your wisdom and thanks for your support))))))

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For the lovers to proceed with their script and to retain their good self-images, W MUST be reduced to being the kind of person it is OK to betray -- otherwise the thing won't work
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You have answered the question I was playing on my head over and over. Why would he go to such lenghts? such details? (he told her he suspected I abused the kids for a while now, HA!). I can just picture them both, her curled up on the couch, stroking his ego, saying "oh no, that's just terrible! you poor thing, what a b*tch!, you are so wonderful!"
I am now just shaking my head at their castle of lies, one tormented person consoling another one, both totally blind.

I always wondered if he ever talked about me, I never got a clue even as I found the proof of his A last year in she shape of a box full of notes letters and picts. Never did I have a clue he'd talked so badly about me. I pity him, I'm not angry, he's just a poor wretched soul, God help him.