Quoting lostlove: I need to give h a break...I need to give h the benefit of the doubt...I need to see h for who he is and stop thinking he's some manipulative jerk like so many of the wah's I read about here. I feel bad for those women but that just isn't my h and I'm not naive or ignorant to think so.
BY GEORGE, she's got it!!
Your H is his own man! ... he's not your father or anyone else you read about here. Your H lives by his own code ... one of high integrity and honor. Unfotunately, such men are tend to believe there is not much importance in emotion and feelings in such a code, but as you learn to interpret his actions by the "rules" of his code (for example, coming up with escape routes for you) , you will see much more how he is showing you how much he cares for you.
Keep journey down this yellow brick road LL ... it will take you home.
