Good responses - thank you all. I am also learning that there is no one-size-fits-all method to restoring a marriage after the Big A. Why is there not a Betty Ford-like clinic for unfaithful spouses or maybe a 12 step program for Fogaholics Anonymous??
I am definately taking all of this feedback and trying to mend it into my "plan." I keep reading all of these posts in this thread, and other posts on this site over and over. Don't know where I would be without all this feedback.
I am about to go get some exercise. And tonight, after the kids are in bed, I am going to get some friend-time with my neighborhood buddies. I can do this. Thanks again.
