I think you need to ask your lawyer a few more questions:
1. Do I gain anything by filing first? 2. What if he files first, does he gain anything? 3. If I choose not to file right now, what is the best way to protect myself regarding cutdody and finances?
I'm all for saving marriages. It's just that the description of your husband creeps me out. Has he always been this cruel, manipulative and intimidating?
